The 3 Major Attributes to Failure
The 3 Major Attributes to Failure. What each and every entrepreneur/person should brace for:
By Richard Fani
Doubt Indecision Fear
The road of entrepreneurs is never easy, it is filled with negative feelings and emotions all aimed at preventing the entrepreneur from reaching his/her goals. These negative feelings and emotions are called INDECISION, DOUBT and FEAR and are perpetuated by the people that we spend most of our time with, the things that we see or hear every single day. These feelings and emotions are created slowly every day until they become a part of us, untraceable, unnoticeable but much alive in our subconscious minds.
These 3 major negative feelings and emotions are perhaps the most destructive of all as they create a sense of insecurity by influencing our minds of the impending non-existing danger, thereby preventing us from taking that much needed step into greatness. Without these 3 feelings and emotions I don’t think there would be one single inspirational and motivational writer, speaker or blogger as we all tend to address these causes of failure using different situations and messages such that the world can understand.
Now let’s try and examine how these 3 feelings and emotions actually work and influence our minds.
Indecision
INDECISION is mainly fostered by the lack to embrace unfamiliarity. We are afraid of rapid change. This usually comes out alive when we have to choose what course of action to take; and normally people conform; we decide to act like everyone else. So our greatest problem is we do not know how to make firm decisions and stand by them. We change our decisions rapidly; usually at the first sign of defeat and what happens is because we don’t know how to stand by our decisions we change them again and again until it becomes a habit of waving over our decisions.
Many people believe in what is known, safe and secure but the decision you need to make and stand by is daring that which is unknown, exciting, and adventurous and calling onto you. Being different is a major change that each entrepreneur should be able to embrace for history has proven to us that those who are likely to succeed are those that dares that which is unknown like Strive Masiyiwa and Econet, John D Rockefeller and Standard Oil, among many others.
DOUBT is the lack of confidence when executing thought ideas. It is usually a result of INDECISION but relatively destructive on its own like any of the other two. Entrepreneurs who doubt their actions are likely to fail, that is if they even decide to dare themselves. Many ideas could not be put into practice because the people who had those ideas could not believe themselves capable of leading a change. They believed being different is insecure, they let doubt take everything they wanted from them.
Our road as entrepreneurs is filled with uncertainty. Doubt takes away all the confidence and it discourages initiative; it goes all the way and promotes hesitation and encourages procrastination. Every action that we may want to take becomes unattainable. We begin to judge our capability negatively to the extent that we start to believe that the forces (circumstances) around us are much greater than our hopes and dreams.
The combination of INDECISION and DOUBT blended together forms the greatest ghost called FEAR. Above all the major 3 attributes of failure is FEAR. FEAR comes to us in different forms and situations like the fear of that is unknown, the fear of poverty, criticism, death among others. These fears cripple one into denial like they make you feel like there is nothing you can do to change your situation, like you cannot be saved and takes from us the COURAGE to face life challenges.
Many people often say they don’t fear anything but in reality they fear everything. This is mainly because FEAR is an emotion which is hidden deep in the sub-conscious mind and more of it is the fact that we are afraid to admit that we are afraid. FEAR is only a state of mind and like any state of minds, it can be reversed, it can be challenged and it can be changed replaced by WILL-POWER and BOLDNESS.
Trace your steps every day and find out which of the 3 major attributes to failure is holding you back if not all. All these attributes can be challenged and be beaten but only if you make the decision to commit yourself to taking control of your life. Stop doubting yourself and enter each and every action with boldness, enter every action like you already know the end result, like you have already won that’s the only way you can permanently remove Doubt from your chest. NOTE that 3 feelings and emotions are merely nothing physical but mental; therefore to defeat them is only owed to the complete change of the mind-set.
By Richard Fani
Doubt Indecision Fear
The road of entrepreneurs is never easy, it is filled with negative feelings and emotions all aimed at preventing the entrepreneur from reaching his/her goals. These negative feelings and emotions are called INDECISION, DOUBT and FEAR and are perpetuated by the people that we spend most of our time with, the things that we see or hear every single day. These feelings and emotions are created slowly every day until they become a part of us, untraceable, unnoticeable but much alive in our subconscious minds.
These 3 major negative feelings and emotions are perhaps the most destructive of all as they create a sense of insecurity by influencing our minds of the impending non-existing danger, thereby preventing us from taking that much needed step into greatness. Without these 3 feelings and emotions I don’t think there would be one single inspirational and motivational writer, speaker or blogger as we all tend to address these causes of failure using different situations and messages such that the world can understand.
Now let’s try and examine how these 3 feelings and emotions actually work and influence our minds.
Indecision
INDECISION is mainly fostered by the lack to embrace unfamiliarity. We are afraid of rapid change. This usually comes out alive when we have to choose what course of action to take; and normally people conform; we decide to act like everyone else. So our greatest problem is we do not know how to make firm decisions and stand by them. We change our decisions rapidly; usually at the first sign of defeat and what happens is because we don’t know how to stand by our decisions we change them again and again until it becomes a habit of waving over our decisions.
Many people believe in what is known, safe and secure but the decision you need to make and stand by is daring that which is unknown, exciting, and adventurous and calling onto you. Being different is a major change that each entrepreneur should be able to embrace for history has proven to us that those who are likely to succeed are those that dares that which is unknown like Strive Masiyiwa and Econet, John D Rockefeller and Standard Oil, among many others.
DOUBT is the lack of confidence when executing thought ideas. It is usually a result of INDECISION but relatively destructive on its own like any of the other two. Entrepreneurs who doubt their actions are likely to fail, that is if they even decide to dare themselves. Many ideas could not be put into practice because the people who had those ideas could not believe themselves capable of leading a change. They believed being different is insecure, they let doubt take everything they wanted from them.
Our road as entrepreneurs is filled with uncertainty. Doubt takes away all the confidence and it discourages initiative; it goes all the way and promotes hesitation and encourages procrastination. Every action that we may want to take becomes unattainable. We begin to judge our capability negatively to the extent that we start to believe that the forces (circumstances) around us are much greater than our hopes and dreams.
The combination of INDECISION and DOUBT blended together forms the greatest ghost called FEAR. Above all the major 3 attributes of failure is FEAR. FEAR comes to us in different forms and situations like the fear of that is unknown, the fear of poverty, criticism, death among others. These fears cripple one into denial like they make you feel like there is nothing you can do to change your situation, like you cannot be saved and takes from us the COURAGE to face life challenges.
Many people often say they don’t fear anything but in reality they fear everything. This is mainly because FEAR is an emotion which is hidden deep in the sub-conscious mind and more of it is the fact that we are afraid to admit that we are afraid. FEAR is only a state of mind and like any state of minds, it can be reversed, it can be challenged and it can be changed replaced by WILL-POWER and BOLDNESS.
Trace your steps every day and find out which of the 3 major attributes to failure is holding you back if not all. All these attributes can be challenged and be beaten but only if you make the decision to commit yourself to taking control of your life. Stop doubting yourself and enter each and every action with boldness, enter every action like you already know the end result, like you have already won that’s the only way you can permanently remove Doubt from your chest. NOTE that 3 feelings and emotions are merely nothing physical but mental; therefore to defeat them is only owed to the complete change of the mind-set.
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